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Tiny Things

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I was sitting in ceremony last weekend with my friends & colleagues from the TLG, contemplating a question facing us about Restoring Wholeness. We’d each found a spot to think and be silent beside a little stream, and I chose one in the sun at the base of a tall slim tree.

Busy at my task of thinking and being silent 🙂 it took me a few minutes to slow down. When I did, I started to notice things. I saw the lazy shadows of water-skimmers on the bottom of the creekbed, a brilliant butterfly skuttered past on my left, and with a start – I suddenly saw these tiny delicate leaf skeletons that were all around me.

In this Moment

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This last Friday Craig & Patricia Neal from the Minnesota-based Heartland were here for September’s  Thought Leader Gathering, the every-other-monthly invitational event that I help produce with the Neals & Firehawk & Pele of Resonance.

The conversation starter, Mal Warwick of BSR and SVN, was wonderful as each and every one of them have been since we started these evolutionary dialogues back in 1999, but it is immediately clear that the TLG experience goes far beyond the specifics of any given conversation starter.

What is happening at these gatherings is ‘presence’. The TLG calls us
to Presence… to be here, in this moment, with ourselves, with each
other, and within nature.

The methods are deceptively simple, as these things tend to be (after
all, Presence is our natural state), but profoundly effective. How many
of us regularly take the time in our busy lives just to ‘be’ together? To turn off our email and cell phone and tune in to the messages coming from our own inner being? How many of us have the deep pleasure of a community of peers where we have the opportunity to listen deeply to each other. To feel the fundamental connection between us as fellow meaning-seeking creatures, and the inspiration & catalytic impetus we can be to each other as a tribe of humans committed to making a difference in our world?

We sit in circle and speak our words, and listen to the words of others, and all the while alongside this profoundly satisfying level of connection and interaction, something else is happening. Our hearts are opening, and we are experiencing a deeper rhythm, a silent resonance between us. There is a calming of our everyday concerns and a re-alignment with the larger patterns that have a sense and reason that gives meaning and direction to the actions that will arise from our time together.

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At the center of these gatherings, quite literally as well a metaphorically, is Beauty. Each time we gather, Firehawk and Pele bring abundant expressions of beauty – candles & fabric, stones or feathers or other ‘medicine’ materials from their cupboards & trunks, and flowers & plants & the all-important clippers with which they bring the outside in – and gather the elements into a beautiful patterm which is laid in a place of honor in the center of our circle. This ‘beauty in the middle’ is our anchor. We don’t have to speak it, it just is. Beauty calls us to presence, and shows us who and what we are at an essential level.

BlogHer Take2

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One of my favorite things at BlogHer was the personal connections I made or deepened with the many amazingly creative women there… (these two amazingly beautiful women standing with me at BlogHer, left, are fellow GiGis Nancy White and Tree Fitzgerald)

There were more relational revelations than I can do justice to in
just one post, but I experienced a bunch of them at a Birds of a Feather
break-out session, which the conference organizers arranged to bring together like-minded folks for a metaphoric ‘cup of tea’ around the pool.

We got to propose our own group topics so of course I proposed one on ‘Art
& Beauty’. As it happened, the beautiful woman standing in line next to me was Tracey Clark, and she was the first to sign up, saying
“I’m all about Beauty!”. Check out the stunning photographs of her children at WarmTone, and I think you’ll agree.

There was a poet there with an extraordinarily attractive business card (nice stock, white, with a simple photograph of a short, tooth-bitten pencil on it), Joan Gelfand, who wrote a gorgeous book of new poetry I had to buy, and has an equally zen blog offering sage nuggets of wisdom. She also blogs on the empty nest syndrome, which I think is a rich and under-utilized blogging subject. Or maybe she’s just more my age and I can relate to it a bit better than the younger ‘mommy blogs’.

Another of the lovely women in the group, Maria, keeps a sketchblog with glimpses into her colorful sketchbook. She says she wouldn’t paint if it wasn’t for the discipline of keeping up a daily blog. so that’s a ‘gold star’ for the world of blogging right there. Paula Kim takes startlingly fresh botanical photographs, and Megan McMillan collaborates with her husband Murray on a vast world of wild and crazy artwork. Yet another, Evelyn Rodriguez, writes a deeply juicy, long, rambling blog on art, beauty, fashion, God, and Everything.

One of my favorite workshops (on Digital Photography) was presented by an incredibly inspiring photographer, Heather Champ, who also posts her work on Flickr, where she works as community coordinator. I’m not surprised by her appointment as such because besides being extremely talented she was the most genuinely friendly, open and generous person I’ve met in a long time.

I also ran into the daughter of an old friend of mine there, Shuna Fish Lydon, who has a fabulously beautiful & quirky foodblog called Eggbeater. It’s one of those immediately addictive reads for a foodie like me, integrating poems and photographs along with recipes for the perfect pie crust and best marmalade this side of the Atlantic.

There was another fascinating woman presenting at BlogHer, Mecca Ibrahim, who blogs on the London Underground under the name of Annie Mole. Maybe I should have looked her up when I was in the UK last week, but I was too shy. Plus I wasn’t actually in London – more on this last to come.

These are just a few of the women I ran into who are seeding incredible beauty in the world through their blogs and poetry/artwork. Ah, the eternal inspiration of unbridled creativity! Long may we flourish and support each other.

Coyote Ridge

These two experiences for a number of reasons. One is that they both gave me the sense of connection and perfection and order that I am associating with beauty in these dialogues, and another because this is one of the groups with which I am pioneering the ‘feminine’ relationship with technology I’ve also spoken about here.

TlgiconLast Friday I spent the morning at a Thought Leader Gathering, where the conversation (started by Richard Barrett, but quickly picked up and expanded by the group), circled around the real possibility of a unified humanity that recognizes itself as one body.

That evening a few of us from the core TLG team convened in a circle around a fire at Coyote Ridge, an incredible spot high in the Santa Cruz mountains, to discuss a new initiative we are launching.

Land
Coyote Ridge is an incredibly beautiful place, perched on the edge of
1000s of acres of wilderness, which you can see misting off into the
furthest distances, 360 degrees around you. The people who steward this
magical land offer restorative Vision Quests there for those who would answer the land’s call to wholeness.

I mention these two experiences for a number of reasons. One is that
they both gave me the sense of connection and perfection and order that
I am associating with beauty in these dialogues, and another because
thse folks are one of the groups with which I am pioneering the ‘feminine’
relationship with technology I’ve also spoken about here.

Both the Thought Leader Gathering and the summit at
Coyote Ridge were gatherings that focus on the elements that go into
creating true relationship, whether face2face or online. Since one of the
‘laws’ that governs our work together is holding beauty at the center
of all we do, we were held not only by the environment of beauty & safety we created at the TLG site and the incredible serenity of the land at Coyote Ridge (which you really have to experience to know fully), but also the deep pleasure of connection to each other and to a vision larger than any of our individual dreams. And that’s saying a lot because this is a group that dreams big!

I look forward to the development of this journey.