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Archive for Ceremony – Page 7

Trifle

Two of the great pleasures of life and the Christmas season are good friends and good food, and I got to experience both of them this year.

Living in England so long I got addicted to many things about that green and pleasant land, not least the fabulous array of English Christmas puddings. So in homage I made a trifle this year and brought it to my friends for our dessert… check it out:

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Here’s my recipe:

There are four roughly equal layers to this dessert, most all of them saturated with alcohol… and of course many variations on the basic theme are possible; all equally delicious.

I recommend using a glass (so you can see the beautiful layers), straight-sided bowl, about 8" deep. Line your container with lady fingers, cutting them to fit the bottom and sides. Sprinkle liberally with alcohol – I used Grand Marnier, but you can use any liqueur, sherry, or dessert wine.

First Layer: Fruit. About 2 inches (or 1/4 of your container) of fresh or drained tinned fruit, macerated in the liqueur of your choice. I used fresh blackberries, raspberries and strawberries with a little baker’s sugar (to taste), a healthy splash of Grand Marnier and a few gratings of orange zest, and left it to macerate at room temperature for about an hour (less or more is fine). Leave some perfect fruit to use as decoration on the top.

Second Layer: Jelly (aka ‘Jello’, in American) – I used wild strawberry, with blueberry-pomegranate juice instead of water. Make it about 2 1/2 hours ahead of the rest of the dessert in a separate bowl, and add it on top of the fruit layer when it’s already started to set but is not yet hard. Refrigerate the trifle for a couple of hours at this point until the jelly/o is completely set.

Third Layer: Custard. You can make the custard from scratch, use a mix, open a can or purchase it ready-made, but make sure it is quite thick, and has cooled to at least room temperature before using. When you’re making it, mix in a bit of liqueur (Grand Marnier again, in this case) and a bit of orange zest or thin-sliced candied orange peel.  Spread the custard evenly over the jello layer. Refrigerate until it’s quite firmly set.

Fourth (Last) Layer: Whipped Cream. Whip heavy cream until it is quite firm – watch that it doesn’t turn to butter – adding Grand Marnier, baker’s sugar, and orange zest or candied peel as you go. Pile on top of the custard to the very top and refrigerate the trifle until just before you’re ready to serve.

Decoration: Just before you’re ready to serve, decorate the top of the trifle. I used fresh raspberries, tiny pieces of lemon peel, slivered almonds, chocolate sprinkles and pomegranate seeds, but I’m kind of excessive, even in a season infamous for excess. 🙂 Chocolate curls or shavings are also nice.

All is Light

Once again I am finding myself utterly enchanted by the lights of this season  … from the emblazoned houses and glittering trees to the reflected glory of tonight’s crescent moon.

I experienced something the other night I would have given a lot to have the skill to photograph – little white lights wound gracefully between the branches of a red maple and a tall wooden fence; all red and gold and brown – the shadow and light and shape of the leaves together making something completely transcendent, shimmering there in the evening’s cold still air.

Sometimes it’s even better when I can’t capture a moment in a photograph… it makes me hold it more gently, as a perfect memory… And then there are the perfect memories that become icons of themselves through the magic of representation.

We decorated our tree today, and here are two imperfect photos I took of its perfect light:

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Second Night


Second Night  Originally uploaded by heather.

How cool! Heather Champ is posting photographs to Flickr as she lights the candle for each night of Hanukkah…

I think I’ll add them one by one to this post, ceremonially, offering that gesture as a collective lighting of each flame on our virtual menorah. In honor of life, and miracles.

Here’s the whole sequence:

First Night (12/15):

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Second Night (12/16):

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Third Night (12/17):

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Fourth Night (12/18):

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Fifth Night (12/19):

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Sixth Night (12/20):

(tonight I had the blessing of sharing the prayers that accompany this night’s ritual lighting with my rebel rabbi friend Joel) 

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Seventh Night (12/21):

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Last Night (12/22):

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In this Moment

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This last Friday Craig & Patricia Neal from the Minnesota-based Heartland were here for September’s  Thought Leader Gathering, the every-other-monthly invitational event that I help produce with the Neals & Firehawk & Pele of Resonance.

The conversation starter, Mal Warwick of BSR and SVN, was wonderful as each and every one of them have been since we started these evolutionary dialogues back in 1999, but it is immediately clear that the TLG experience goes far beyond the specifics of any given conversation starter.

What is happening at these gatherings is ‘presence’. The TLG calls us
to Presence… to be here, in this moment, with ourselves, with each
other, and within nature.

The methods are deceptively simple, as these things tend to be (after
all, Presence is our natural state), but profoundly effective. How many
of us regularly take the time in our busy lives just to ‘be’ together? To turn off our email and cell phone and tune in to the messages coming from our own inner being? How many of us have the deep pleasure of a community of peers where we have the opportunity to listen deeply to each other. To feel the fundamental connection between us as fellow meaning-seeking creatures, and the inspiration & catalytic impetus we can be to each other as a tribe of humans committed to making a difference in our world?

We sit in circle and speak our words, and listen to the words of others, and all the while alongside this profoundly satisfying level of connection and interaction, something else is happening. Our hearts are opening, and we are experiencing a deeper rhythm, a silent resonance between us. There is a calming of our everyday concerns and a re-alignment with the larger patterns that have a sense and reason that gives meaning and direction to the actions that will arise from our time together.

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At the center of these gatherings, quite literally as well a metaphorically, is Beauty. Each time we gather, Firehawk and Pele bring abundant expressions of beauty – candles & fabric, stones or feathers or other ‘medicine’ materials from their cupboards & trunks, and flowers & plants & the all-important clippers with which they bring the outside in – and gather the elements into a beautiful patterm which is laid in a place of honor in the center of our circle. This ‘beauty in the middle’ is our anchor. We don’t have to speak it, it just is. Beauty calls us to presence, and shows us who and what we are at an essential level.