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Sacred Space in 2nd Life

If you know me or have read this blog for any length of time, you know that bringing sacred space into the online sphere has been one of my strongest dreams and passions ever since I entered this field. In my work I am always seeking to create environments of peace and beauty where silence is welcome and hearts connect, where we are aware of all our relations within the natural and spirit worlds and can enter deeply into our essential nature as Humans and relate together in the sure knowledge that we are one interconnected spirit and body.

I’ve been integrating color and images and movement into user interfaces, cultivating the practice of kindness and respect in conversational forums, and generally evolving these sensory-based language(s) as my ground-of-being online. I have been blessed with many successes, large and small, in beginning to realize my dream, but the other night my ability to imagine what is truly possible took a quantum leap.

My friend and playmate in this realm FireHawk Hulin (aka DragonWolf Goheen) invited me to join him in Second Life to explore something he and the ever-amazing David Sibbet (aka Sunseed Bardeen) had been working on with the exquisite Michelle Paradis (aka SingingHeart Amat) … something truly unique in my experience, and totally magical.

Storiesatthefire

We sat in circle around the fire in this beautiful clearing made
sacred by our intention and David & Michelle’s artistry and told each other
stories. We shared the stories of our dreams and visions, the stories
that had brought each of us to this place in this moment of no-time.
Late into the night we spoke the words that brought us each into our
full being – together in a state of honor and respect.

We spoke through a long sunset, its last rays illuminating a variety
of lush flower beds that framed and colored each of the eight gates
that stood and marked each direction of our circumference. We continued
to speak as stars filled the sky above us and the sounds of soft
singing and drumming were joined by those of crickets and the night
sounds of the clearing. We were completely there, our small circle of
four; in that time and place, in body and in spirit.

I know that not everyone would be interested in exploring a virtual
world environment, even if the learning curve for navigating it was not
so steep. In the past I’ve thought of that fact as a reason not to
focus my creative energy there, but the other night a different
realization appeared to me. If the people who do play in Second Life –
the ‘geeks’ and futurists and early-adaptor trend-setters – are able to
experience something so truly transformational there as I experienced
the other night, then perhaps some of that peace and beauty will be
reflected, even in some small way, in what they create and write and
say and do in their own First Lives, or the ‘real’ world where the rest
of humanity lives.

This realization of larger purpose and
intent would make any time I spent in Second Life completely
justifiable, but on a more personal level it was enormously joyful and
generative to just let my imagination run free and experience the pure
pleasure of unbridled creativity… tasting that bliss is worth a lot
to me and I can’t wait to see what we’ll imagine next!

Storyfield

First of all, the invitation to Storyfield itself blew my mind. Sent out to visual artists, writers, photographers, filmmakers, videographers, oral storytellers, journalists, executive coaches, non-profit workers, process arts practitioners, teachers, elders, the invitation was wide and consciously went out to a broad range of age and ethnicities. The call was made for us all to consider the larger field of cultural and personal stories that determine our world view, and see what a new story might look like.

Conceived by Tom Atlee of the Co-Intelligence Institute and Peggy Holman, co-editor of The Change Handbook, Storyfield was unlike any other conference I’d ever been to. In truth it was more like a Gathering of the Tribes; the wide and diverse tribes of creative humanity engaged in Re-imagining the World.

The event was held using Open Space Technology, which is a process that holds incredible promise for interaction and open sharing of people’s passions and dreams. It also invites a certain amount of creative chaos and definitely suits extrovert personalities better than introverts. Along with the unexpected treasure that emerged, there were many shy souls that were lost in the mix and couldn’t show up at all. For future gatherings, I’d prefer to see the Open Space format tempered with other more inclusive methods like the World Café or the circle work used in Heartland Circle’s Thought Leader Gatherings.

Still, the gathering was an amazing expression of positive energy and spontaneous community building. One member of the group introduced a formula that was crucial for creating the container strong enough to hold the group together – HSL – which stands for ‘holding, seeing, and loving’ each other. This group definitely HSLed each other into being, and we emerged with a rare and powerful sense of connection and community, poised to take action in a variety of ways.

A lot of effort went into getting a diverse representation of people to attend, but of course there were big gaps – most notably a lack of Hispanic participants – and the numbers of native peoples in attendance broadly reflected the balance of native peoples whose voices are visible in the white-dominated world more generally. There were some necessary crash courses in Racism 101 offered for those of us as yet unaware of the extent of our cultural unconsciousness, and that led to some amazing openings both personally and in the group as a whole. The youth contingent was given particular status; their projects and enthusiasms championed in concrete ways. For example, one morning’s sharing of a story about one youth project that needed support raised over $1300 in $10s & $20s (plus one anonymous $500 donation) from the assembly within a few hours; approx. $300 over the amount needed.

My most memorable moments came from one young teacher whose love for her students was so palpable it made me long for that kind of unconditional care and support to be universally available to developing psyches everywhere. She was so talented and expressive herself that she blew my mind constantly. The first time I noticed there was a powerhouse in the room was when she let out a loud “BaaayOhhh!” during one of the early gatherings, explaining with a shrug and her signature smile – “that’s the sound my soul makes when I open my mouth.” Her contribution to an impromptu talent show after our last night’s feast was some of the most moving performance poetry I’ve ever seen. I would give anything to be her publisher! I hope I’ll have the opportunity to share the video we took of that night’s festivities here at some point.

She also offered one of my favorite ideas for taking the energy we’d created together forward. Her suggestion was simple – to break bread regularly with others in our communities, and afterwards invite folks to share creative expressions – to sing a song, or recite their poetry, or play a musical instrument, or do whatever they are called to do in that moment to unleash the wild heart’s imagination. My love-monkey and I have been promising ourselves to offer regular dinner salons for ages now, a place to gather in community and discuss questions that matter to all of us. Perhaps this will be the catalyst for us to actually do it.

Another powerful joy for me was in seeing a project dear to my heart proposed by a good friend, George Johnson of Entrevis, and have it take off (luckily he’s an extrovert! ☺). The project is Vision for Humanity, and it came from an idea initiated by Australian visionary Malcolm Cohan. George’s current iteration is called TellAVision and he has some fantastic plans for it. Stay tuned for more details.

Finally, but by no means least important, the gathering was held at the Shambhala Mountain Center in northern Colorado, and the land was alive with magic. There is a Tibetan Stupa built on the property that channels positive energy between the heavens and earth, and you could feel the funnel effect activating the whole property.

Stupa

It felt like we were co-creating a vortex of energy during our time together that will have effects far beyond anything we can currently image. It didn’t hurt that the entire gathering was held within sacred space – marked in the visible world by an Ojibwa pipe ceremony that began the first morning on the steps in front of the Stupa, calling our collective ancestors in to bless our work. It ‘ended’ with the two pieces of the pipe being separated after the final session, where the mantle of conference leadership was passed to a new group who will organize next year’s event.

I suspect many of you will want to be there; I know I will.

Love Religion

Love is the religion in me.

Whichever way love’s camel goes,
That way becomes my faith,
The source of beauty, and a light

Of sacredness over every thing.

~Ibn Arabi~ Sufi mystic, poet, and spiritual teacher
(see the next page for the full text of this poem)

The Love Religion

The inner space inside
That we call the heart
Has become many different
Living scenes and stories.

A pasture for sleek gazelles,
A monastery for Christian monks,
A temple with Shiva dancing,
A kaaba for pilgrimage

The tablets of Moses are there,
The Qur’an, the Vedas,
The sutras, and the gospels,

Love is the religion in me.
Whichever way love’s camel goes,
That way becomes my faith,
The source of beauty, and a light
Of sacredness over every thing.

~Ibn Arabi~ Sufi mystic, poet, and spiritual teacher

Solstice 07

Center

I just returned from a Solstice celebration held in a redwood forest in the Santa Cruz mountains. This ceremony and its ‘Dreaming’ counterpart held in the middle of winter have become necessary bookmarks in my year, rituals of integration and relationship that bring wholeness and balance to the busi-ness of my life.

One of my favorites moments in this pattern cycle is the night we dance a prayer dance in a medicine wheel built into a meadow, surrounded by redwoods and anchored by a mother tree that must be at least 600 years old. People have been dancing to the Tree of Life for millenia and you can feel a sense of eternity and timelessness that comes like grace as we dance around the delicate Oklahoma Redbud, our ‘tree of life’,  hour after hour.

Leg muscles powered by the relentless beat of a large hand made buffalo skin drum (and the energy of the rotating team of drummers that keep this beat alive), the dancers alternately rush to the center and ebb back to the perimeter, again and again. Running forward with outstretched hands, raising our eagle feathers to bless the tree that stands in the center representing Life, we offer our gratitude for the gifts she’s given us all year. Then we dance back in equal rhythm, gratefully receiving life’s bounty and drawing it deep into our own centers, again and again.

When the drums have stopped and we’ve finished dancing, those who want to stay pull a circle of chairs close around the tree … She’s lit from below by a thousand candles encircling her base, long white ribbons that decorate her branches dancing in the night wind. We sit in long silence as the stars and moon move above us and the night whispers its secrets to the trees. I drink this endless moment like water in the desert, stillness pouring into my body like holy communion wine.

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My deep gratitude to my companions on this prayer dance journey, and to the hosts and conveners of this beauty: FireHawk and Pele at Resonance and their partners Bill & Marilyn Veltrop at Infinite Games and Craig and Patricia Neal of Heartland Circle.